I thought about it again and suddenly I identified the feeling.) I told him that I understood that it was completely justified and that I was glad we managed to overcome the dramatic issues.I was feeling really good, and every passing day I only felt better.I knew he was going to work and to therapy and I knew he was going out because people were calling me left and right to check up on me after hearing from H at party X or Y or Z that we had broken up.He took responsibility, there was no such thing as me paying for anything in his presence, or me driving for that matter.Its not something I accept for myself or for any of your girls.I've been on a few dates with men who work in "finance" — as in, they can't explain to me in 10 words or less what it is exactly that they colors he could see or wear outside of the office.I'll try to write more about things I learned from K, but this is just a brief update for now because I know you girls have been waiting for ages to hear from me.
Yeah, that would make this a soothing space, right?
I can actively feel myself changing and growing and healing.
We talked and he was really amazed/happy/impressed at how good I was.
We have a good relationship and are both in it for the long haul.
In fact, things have really worked out for the best for me.